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So before you pick up another cup of coffee or grab something sweet to try to boost your energy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], consider doing exactly the opposite. Grab a couple of moments of silence. Be still and be present to how you are feeling. Hold that feeling in your compassion until you feel your life force surging again.
When you have quieted down inside it is possible to receive insights about what is causing the energy drain,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and become aware of the changes you need to make physically, mentally, emotionally,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or spiritually to stop draining energy. You may find you need to change a belief,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], habit or behavior that is causing you to lose energy.
I used to grab a cup of coffee or something sweet to boost my energy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Now I know there is a more effective response.
What have I learned to do? I’ve learned to surrender to what is happening in my body and emotions right now. Instead of worrying or thinking about what I should be doing, I stop and notice what is going on in the moment.
As I’m writing a response to this question today, I am feeling tired. I’m not entirely sure whether I’ve taxed my body with what I’m currently healing or the planetary alignment is tugging on my energy. Fortunately, I’m feeling emotionally stable, though many years ago,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], emotional upheaval was the greatest pull on my energy.
Consider getting out in nature for as much time as possible. Mother Earth naturally relaxes and energizes you at the same time. Creative expression and meditation can produce those same seemingly opposed qualities of being tranquil and energized. This is a heightened state of consciousness that many of us are craving when we say we want to feel more energy,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Once you stop the draining,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you will naturally begin feeling more energized. Then, if you open to your self-love and compassion, you will feel an impulse to express your life with exuberance and passion. Allow yourself to feel inspired to make the changes you know you need to make in order to take care of yourself with greater passion and regard than you have ever cared for yourself before.
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There is nothing wrong with needing to be still. In fact,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it can be exactly right. The expression of life emerges from the stillness,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], so returning to stillness and quiet may be exactly what you need to reset your energy.
By surrendering, I create a space in which I am attending to the truth of how I am in this moment. With just a few minutes or seconds of compassionate attentiveness, I can feel my energy shift. Here is a meditation for stimulating self-compassion:
This is not a surrender to a hopeless situation. This is about surrendering my resistance to what is actually happening. If I am tired or drained of energy, denying it doesn’t change anything.
What we may not realize or remember is that this heightened awareness and zeal for life can also be experienced with an underlying sense of calm and peace that is ultimately far more healthy for us than pure adrenaline rush.
Like all of us,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I have my days when my energy is low. I used to fight and resist it, which as you can imagine, only made me feel worse. I used to think that this state of being was something I needed to fix, because like many of us, I grew up being taught that it was not good to be idle. So I know I can push myself when it might be better to be still.
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To ensure the
springs spewing,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], our current water supply pattern, based on the the Yellow River water surface water groundwater accounted for 94%, accounted for only 6%. With the South-North water to accelerate in 2013,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Ji'nan will be completed. Built by the Municipal Bureau of construction of the eastern waterworks, initially to the Yellow River water, 2013 will be the lower reaches of the Yangtze River water. Then, eastern new city residents to drink water from the Yangtze river.
this September 20th dispatch (reporter Ma Guojun trainee reporter Chen Jiabao) with the South-to-North Water Diversion Project to accelerate, the fastest in Ji'nan in 2013 will be the same as the Yangtze River drinking water,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the Yellow River water,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], reservoir water and ground water. Relevant experts to participate in the Sixth China Urban Water Development International Seminar on that, although by then Ji'nan will become the country's most complex city water, but people need not worry completely. Ji'nan has the most polluted the Yellow River water treatment factory directly drinking water, along with the enhancement of Ji'nan water power,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], to further enhance the future water quality will. It is reported, with the aid of the state "water project" support, to "925" end,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], all of Ji'nan water supply factory direct drinking.
water increased, means of water treatment process requirements more stringent, Ji'nan water industry can do? The experts said, the Yangtze River water,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the Yellow River water, reservoir water and ground water 4 water,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the Yellow River water especially water pollution in the lower reaches of the Yellow River is the heaviest,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the lower reaches of the Yangtze River water,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], groundwater is the most clean. In recent years,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the Yellow River water pollution,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the presence of high organic matter, high taste and odor, high bromine ion and water quality problems, the traditional treatment process has failed. Municipal Public Utility Bureau under the national "water project" support of Yellow River, the Quehua and Yuqing waterworks implementation technology upgrades, improve water quality by using ozone-GAC process comprehensive. At present, Ji'nan has a daily capacity of 400000 tons of standard factory to drink straight tap water. According to the present Quehua and Yuqing waterworks, Ji'nan enough to deal with the Yangtze River water.
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"in our country, every 150 patients in need of transplants, only 1 have the opportunity of operation; while in the United States, 5 individuals in 1 have the opportunity of operation; in the UK, 3 individuals in 1 have the opportunity of operation." Provincial Red Cross Association Secretary-General Xuan Xinghua said, by the traditional concept of the impact, the citizens of our country on the human organ donation is not very understanding,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in this case, with the establishment of the China human organ donation system is particularly important, Shandong has been identified as one of the first national human organ donation pilot 11 provinces.
obligation to donate blood, bone marrow donation activities is not only a social welfare, but also the degree of civilization of a city reflected (data)
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150 a need for organ transplant patients, only 1 have the opportunity of operation, this is the current situation of our country need organ transplantation in the treatment of end-stage patients. Reporter learned yesterday from the Shandong provincial Red Cross was informed that, in the future this situation in our province is expected to be improved, the pilot work of our province human organ donation officially started yesterday, 10 hospitals can pilot donation, but to donate or not donate all by voluntary.
yesterday, I save human organ donation pilot work officially started. Provincial Hospital, Qilu Hospital of Shandong University, Qianfo Hill province hospital, General Hospital of Jinan Military Area, Yantai Yuhuangding Hospital, Shandong University second hospital, the 107th Hospital of PLA, Linyi City People's Hospital,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Liaocheng People's Hospital, Tai'an Central Hospital,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], was identified as a pilot hospital. Xuan Xinghua tells a reporter,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I save the transplantation of human organ donation pilot started, mainly to increase social propaganda, lets the society widely known the organ donation, and understand, support for this work. "No family's understanding and support, human organ donation work is difficult to carry out the."
yesterday, Qilu Hospital of Shandong University,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], director of hemodialysis center in our province human organ donation expert group chairman Tian Jun told reporters. This situation in each can carry out organ transplant hospital are common.
the reporter understands,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], our province has established provincial human organ donation Committee, which is part of the national human organ donation system,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], is mainly responsible for the provincial human organ donation work management. The Committee has donated office,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], business department is located in the provincial Red cross. The next step, Donation Office will set up a human organ donation volunteers and donations coordinator team. "The volunteers and coordinator will further to the hospital related department,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], found that people take the initiative in potential organ donation, donation work." In addition, schools and other special places and driving.

"now here, waiting for a kidney renal failure patients registered more than 100,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the patients waiting for liver source many. Now, the source is liver kidney,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], renal failure patients with hemodialysis,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], wait time may be a little longer, hepatic failure patients if not find donors within 3 months, only to leave this world......"
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What is metabolism? In the simplest terms, Metabolic Rate at which your body burns calories. Very few people have a fast metabolism, and overweight individuals generally have slow metabolisms. However, a faster metabolism will enable you to lose more weight than your friend,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], even if you both have the same activity level, diet, and weight. The great thing is that I listed 15 ways to increase your metabolism!
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15 Healthy and Easy Ways to Increase Your Metabolism
Studies found that men and women who drank green tea with caffeine burned more calories than those who did not. Similar results have been found for oolong tea. The caffeine content is usually less than half of coffee,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Green tea contains what is known as EGCG's which is one of the most potent antioxidants in the world,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Besides burning more calories it can do wonders for your health.
Chronic sleep deprivation reduces the ability of otherwise healthy individuals to perform metabolic functions such as breaking down carbohydrates or producing hormones,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. University of Chicago researchers found that reducing from the standard eight down to four hours of sleep each night created effects that resembled the effects of advanced age or the early stages of diabetes. This happened in less than a week.
1. Eat "Break - Fast" When you go to sleep at night you are essentially fasting all night and your body slows down its metabolism. Its important to kick start your metabolism asap. Studies show that people who eat breakfast daily tend to not overeat later in the day. If I ever find someone who doesnt get great results in boot camp its usually because they skip breakfast and sometimes are waiting 5 or 6 hours until they eat their first meal. Simply stated… "Skip Breakfast,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]...if you want to be Fat".
15 Control your Blood Sugar
Some research has suggested small amount of peanuts or almonds or any other high calorie, high fat nut on a regular basis could increase your resting metabolic rate by 10%.
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7. Keep Your Body Moving
3. Strength Training
9. Reduce Stress
The body burns more calories digesting protein than sugar or carbohydrates,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Protein also helps build fuel burning muscle. Ever feel like a meal wasn't complete without some meat? It's more than just the taste. Meat or any protein such as beans or dairy make your body send the "I'm stuffed" signal.
Stress causes the body to release the hormone cortisol, which helps to break down protein into glucose. Your body then turns this excess glucose into fat and stores it in you stomach. Cortisol competes with dehydroepiandrosterone which is required for a healthy metabolism. Cortisol also reduces hormones necessary for muscle production and libido.
8. Get a lot of Sun
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Drinking water will increase metabolism. Drinking cold water will make your body burn calories to raise your body temperature. If you drink between 6 and 8 glasses of water a day you could burn another 10 pounds a year.
Salmon, Blueberries, Almonds, Whey Protein, Spinach, Turkey, Oatmeal,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Cold water, Green Tea, Psyllium Husk
12. Eat Nuts!
2. Eat four to six small meals (or healthy snacks) a day.
Eat low glycemic foods and donot eat excess carbohydrates. Most people cannot get away with eating tons of carbs and still have low body fat levels. I suggest you google Low Glycemic carbs and choose carbs under 50. Only eat high glycemic carbs right after you train. Combine proteins and healthy fats with your carbs at each meal…this will slow down big spikes in your insulin levels
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6. Vitamins and Minerals
Regular physical activity should be a part of any healthy lifestyle. Even if you have a weekly exercise program, your body's metabolism will slow down if you are sitting at a desk all day. Get moving, take the stairs, bike or walk to work, go for a lunchtime walk. Take a break for at least a few minutes each hour and move.
Your body burns calories digesting food, some foods like celery have "negative calories" because they take more calories to digest than they contain. Small meals will keep you satiated, stop hunger signals and overeating. Your body won't go into starvation mode when you eat frequent meals and will burn more calories.
10. Drink Green Tea or Oolong Tea
Studies show that being out in the sun can increase your metabolism. Usually people are leaner in warmer environments. Take advantage of the sun when we have it,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
14. Consume These super foods:
11. Spice It Up
Spicy foods increase metabolism. The compound capsaicin is what makes chili peppers spicy. Capsaicin will raise your body temperature requiring your metabolism to increase to cool you off. A nice side effect of eating spicy foods is that they reduce your hunger so you eat less,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Lift weights or take up resistance training 2 to 4 times per week. Your resting metabolic rate will increase for a few hours after strength training. Muscle also uses more calories at rest than fat, replace 10 pounds of fat with 10 pounds of muscle and you could burn an extra 100 calories a day. This may not sound like much but that's 10 pounds a year that doesn't end up on your love handles.
Each cell in your body burns food energy to maintain your bodily processes. The chemical processes that convert food to energy require vitamins and minerals. Keep this chemical process working efficiently by eating nutrient rich fruits and vegetables. It's not a bad idea to take a daily multivitamin either just in case. Some doctors may say you don't need to…I say you do because I rarely meet anyone who eats absolutely perfect every single day, however taking excess vitamins is not a good idea either though.
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There are a few reasons that hold some people back:
5. No matter what their job, they know that customer service is their responsibility, and they are always aware of the impact that they can make. They understand that their actions can affect whether or not a customer chooses to return in the future.
Is customer service something you have to be born to do? Some would say it is a skill that can’t be taught, but, while some people are more naturally inclined to it, as long as the right attitude and desire are there,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it is possible to teach customer service.
3. When there is a problem, they find a solution. They figure out a way to solve it while keeping in mind the expectations of the customer and the company they represent. If there is a way to make everyone happy, they will find it.
4. They are proactive. They do not wait for customers to point out problems; if they see something amiss, they will try to fix it. They find opportunities to impress the customer.
3. People misunderstand the meaning of “amazing” customer service. It is simply being better than average – all the time.
2. They give up because they think it will take too much effort. What they don’t realize is it doesn’t take much – mostly attention to detail and little extra touches,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
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“Hire the attitude and train the skill” – the well-known business adage can refer to customer service just as it does to technical job skills. As long as the employee has the proper mindset and a desire to learn the skills necessary to deliver amazing customer service, he or she can be trained to do so. Look beyond the natural inclination toward customer service for those who would also be willing to accept the training.
So, why isn’t everyone amazing at customer service?
Customer service superstars are created one of two ways: either they learned from their parents, or they learned it on the job,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], through customer service training.
Customer service basically comes down to treating other people right. If a person has been taught this basic concept by his or her parents,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it only takes a minimum of training to translate it to super customer service. Others who may not have had as much guidance early in life still may understand and want to do the right thing – it will just take a bit more formal training on the job to translate the willingness into the actual skills. Does a customer really care how the employee came to be a customer service superstar as long as he or she delivers? Whether it’s natural ability or a learned skill, the end result is what matters.
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As I mentioned earlier in the article (and many, many times before) being amazing isn’t about delivering a “WOW!” experience every time. It is simply offering better than average service all the time. Not just some of the time – to be the best it must be better than average every time. Can you do that? Simply be better than average,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], every time,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and you have achieved amazing.
2. They can strike a balance. In one respect, they understand the importance of taking care of the customers and treating them right. But,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], at the same time, they understand the company and its mission, values and vision. They can fulfill their job and uphold these two responsibilities simultaneously – not always an easy task to do, but they are able to find that balance.
And there are reasons that others excel at amazing service:
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Resonance Repatterning© works with universal disciplines that impact your body-mind system for greater wellness and well-being. Chloe Wordsworth,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the founder of this process, developed a number of repatternings dedicated just to vision. Vision is more than just your eyeballs. Dr. Harry Sirota, an optometrist, who extensively worked with the emotional,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], mental and physical qualities of vision influenced these repatternings.
When you transform your resonance with limitation of light, breath, movement, and unresolved memory imprints you will find that your vision of life and the quality of your physical vision will improve!
Breath: Your eyes are second only to the brain in their need for oxygen. When there is less light entering your visual system, the breath centers of the brain do not receive the nourishment they need. Traumas left unresolved can result in interruptions of breath cycles. This can sound like excessive sighing, holding of the breath, or shallow breathing. Stress- response breathing limits the oxygen delivered to your entire body-mind system.
To improve your vision and quality of life with pinpoint accuracy and personal solutions, experience a personal Resonance Repatterning© with Kimberly Rex, MS, an experienced,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], certified Resonance Repatterning and Person-Centered Expressive therapist. Schedule a 60-90 minute session at
Memory: Unmet basic life needs stored in your body’s memory from unresolved issues from the past can affect the quality of vision you have today. Emotional pain and tension tighten or weaken the eye muscles in response to emotional stress. This happens when the Sympathetic Nervous system’s fight or flight responds to stress signals. This changes your near and far point vision, the shape of your eyeballs,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and impacts the ability of your eyes to track vertically and horizontally. When this happens, your ability to experience all of your senses changes in regards to self and others.
It’s important to know that your perception of life impacts your attitude. Envisioning what is possible is your way of seeing the world. If you experience constant inner conflict, the feeling of being stuck, or feel that life is mostly hardship, this relates to both your vision of life and your physical vision. The relationship between stress and your attitude about a situation relates directly to how you envision your goals. Your vision directly impacts how you view a situation,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and how much you can see other views or possibilities.
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Movement: The brain receives stimulation from the light impulses from the rod and cone cells found on the back of the eyeball. The brain, in turn, stimulates muscles in the body. The light-brain-muscle relationship is directly translated to movement. The quality of this connection is expressed in your posture,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], orientation in space, and how you experience connection to self. When there is an imbalance in the brain-movement connection, it changes how your muscles work together. When this energy is limited or blocked, it can result in a sense of numbness, limited motion, or pain.
What You Can Do: Get in touch with what brings you confidence and joy. Find a way to commit to action by including activities that bring joy to your life. Get out into nature,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Take walks with friends or walk your dog. This will give you more positive energy and a brighter outlook for your life,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Massage your face especially around your eyes. This will help you focus and release stress.
On the Chinese Medicine Wheel, vision is directly assigned to Wood Element, and works with liver and gallbladder. Liver works with processing toxins or unfinished business. Gallbladder works with processing fats or with decision-making. On the non-coherent side,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], anger and frustration interrupts coming to a resolution so that you can move forward with clarity and optimism.
What You Can Do: Give yourself some loving and relaxing time to process events or situations in your life. Take inventory of stressful situations in your life. Find a way to delegate or let go of clutter in your home,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], office and activities. Make a space to heal unfinished business from the past. Create images in your mind and heart that bring a sense of happiness or gratitude. Find reasons to laugh.
Light: The transmission of light to your brain and visual cortex is only the beginning of the process. The quality of light in the body-mind system is expressed through the glandular, immune,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], endorphin, muscular, emotional, and respiratory systems. How you experience the physical world depends on how your body-mind sytems interprets it. The use of this light in your body-mind system depends on the quality of this communication .
What You Can Do: Knowledge is key to understanding the components of healthy vision. Get into full-spectrum light daily for at least 5-15 minute. Make time for movement with relaxed and full breath daily. Find ways to break up long sessions of near point/close up work either at the computer or with reading. Surround yourself with color and experiences that make you laugh or bring joy. Get out into nature, or take breaks to relax your eyes by looking out into nature.
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There are four primary contributing factors that impact your vision of life: light, movement, breath and memory.
What You Can Do: Find ways to bring movement with full breath into your daily life. Meditate with an awareness of your breath empowering your life force. Do Three Harmonizing Breaths by inhaling through your nose,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], keeping your tongue on the top of your mouth. Exhale through your mouth, relaxing your tongue on the floor of your mouth.
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Don’t say: “How do you feel?” Say, “Let’s look at what you do when you get angry.”
Q: So, how should a parent manage these outbursts? What’s the appropriate response for a parent to have when they see a tantrum so that they can stop the inappropriate behavior and prevent it from happening in the first place?
I think that if meltdowns work for a child, you’ll see them continue. But as the child gets older, meltdowns will start to look like abusive or intimidating behavior. It’s a tantrum at age 5. At age 15, it’s breaking things around the house, threatening physical violence and using abusive language. So those childhood meltdowns become very serious things.
You have to not give into the meltdown, but you have to understand it and what starts it. Step one is to identify what triggers the child’s behavior--through either you own observations, knowledge or insight, through what you can elicit from the child or what you observe in the environment. Step two is to teach the child that acting out is not the way to manage this. The key is not to listen to the excuse afterwards; it’s getting the kid to understand that when a particular thing happens, he begins to get upset. And when he begins to get upset, there are things he has to do differently in order not to lose control.
The most effective way to do it is to intervene right when the child starts to lose control and say one of the following:
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It’s important to remember that there’s a difference between what the child learns and what the parent says. When you say something to a child, that’s not necessarily what he’s going to learn. He’s not going to learn from what you’re saying. He’s going to learn from what you’re doing. Parents often give speeches about how kids have to behave appropriately. How a certain behavior is not fair to others. How difficult it is and what’s going to happen next time. Then what the parent does is give in. Or the parent escalates their own behavior. These are natural responses, but they are ineffective. Kids learn from what parents do, not from what parents say. When you give in to a child after he acts out, then give him a speech about his behavior, you may think, “Good, I taught him a lesson. He understands now.” But the kid thinks, “Good, I got the ice cream cone. I got my way.” Or,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], “Good, I didn’t have to do it again.” Parents often know the right thing to say, but don’t know the right thing to do. They’re left scratching their heads saying, “I explained this to him a thousand times. I don’t know why he doesn’t understand.” He doesn’t understand because there’s something in the parent’s behavioral response that is reinforcing that behavior. It’s a payoff for the kid. And as long as he gets paid off, he’s going to keep doing it.
“This is what seems to trigger you. Let’s look at what you do when you get angry.”
“Let’s look at what you do when you don’t get your way.”
If the parents don’t respond in an effective way, the child learns that having a meltdown or a temper tantrum will help him accomplish a goal. When a child is in a stressful situation, has a tantrum and the parent gives in to him, that’s as far as he needs to go. He won’t have to learn how to be patient, manage his anxiety and deal with stress. He just has to act out so that his parent takes care of all that. This is a skill that children learn. It’s not because they’re bad kids or good kids. It’s simply what works for them. They learn a problem-solving skill that says “If I’m disruptive to other people, then it solves my problem.” The child doesn’t have to deal with the stress because everyone else is busy running around trying to calm him down and they eventually give in to him.
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Children are going to get overwhelmed, frustrated, angry and have temper tantrums. The way parents manage that will determine the frequency and intensity of the meltdown. Can we stop meltdowns? Absolutely not. This is a part of childhood development. This is how they get out some very painful or confusing feelings. But can we manage their frequency and can we manage their intensity? Absolutely. It all depends on how we respond to them. Tantrums are to be expected, but they’re not to be rewarded. You have to set limits with your child, and teach him the skills to manage overwhelming feelings on his own. If you don’t set up a situation where the child has to learn how to manage those overwhelming feelings and negative thoughts on his own, he’s never going to learn.
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Kids have meltdowns and temper tantrums for two reasons. The first reason is that they have never learned how to manage or have run out of the tools it takes to manage their feelings in a new situation or event. The second reason they have tantrums is because it’s been successful for them in the past. They’ve seen that when they have a tantrum,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they get what they want pretty quickly.
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Parents develop a range of often ineffective ways of responding to and trying to manage the child’s behavioral meltdown. They’ll either go to one extreme and scream, yell, threaten, restrain, grab or spank the child. Or they go to the other extreme: they give in. The parent solves the problem, but not through the most effective means. In my experience, parents are very resistant to the idea of their kids being unhappy or uncomfortable. They learn what their child has taught them: if you make me uncomfortable, I’m going to make you uncomfortable. When a child throws a tantrum at the mall and kicks and screams on the floor, in effect, he’s saying,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], “You have more to lose than me.” You do have more to lose. You’re embarrassed. You can’t accomplish your goal of shopping in the mall. People are looking at you. You feel like a bad parent, and you think everyone around you considers you a bad parent. The kid has nothing to lose and everything to gain. He doesn’t care what people think. He just wants to control you and get an ice cream cone. Inadvertently, parents teach kids that meltdowns work, and as long as something works, it’s human nature not to change it.
The important thing to remember is that it’s not whether tantrums are inevitable. It’s how parents manage them that will determine their frequency and intensity.
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One thing standing in the way of happiness for many people is long-held guilt over something that happened days,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], weeks, months, or even years ago. A twinge of guilt can be very useful in letting us know that we took a wrong turn somewhere,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but long-held guilt offers absolutely no benefit at all.
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I remember my grandmother once saying how he seemed to not take his eyes off of me, a good thing I thought at the time. We dated for six months exclusively, going to the beach daily and talking on the phone until late into the night. I was "a good girl" so to speak and had planned to abstain until my wedding day, despite the constant pressure that crept up after the first couple of months. He was fairly experienced and I was innocent and I think that was part of the attraction. Needless to say,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the time would come and I had no regret,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],after all we had planned to get married. He was a quiet and introspective soul, or so it appeared. Below the surface he had deep wounds and was insecure, surprising for a man so attractive and popular. He would reveal to me his deepest fears and show me the scars that were remnants of a violent attract by a group of thugs on the beach late one night. He never sounded bitter and I found that quite admirable. Soon after we would marry and our union would be sealed.
I would take my child and move in with my grandparents who were happy to provide a safe haven. I recall my grandmother telling me that he had come by with a group of friends while I was gone, and that he threatened my grandfather. My grandfather was elderly and frail, but took no prisoners. I was told he stood his ground,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], said his peace and sent them on their way without incident. I began to worry about my grandparent's safety and asked my mother for her help. There was only one answer and it would involve relocating. I would soon disappear with my child to a new place far away. Once settled, I would hear stories on the resources he would use to try and find us. It was not that he missed his child,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but that he wanted me to pay. Lucky for the two of us, he would eventually lose interest and give up. After all this was a man who had no real interest in anyone but himself.
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I remember the first time I saw him get angry. An old friend of mine that I had not seen in awhile gave me a brief hug and I would introduce my new husband. He seemed fine at first, until we arrived home and he put his fist through the wall in the corridor. That was the first sign. He began to seem more and more on edge and would lose his temper quickly, yelling and throwing things. It was not long until we were asked to move from our new apartment. We would soon move in with his parents who had a verey distant relationship. His father was a drinker and his mother quiet and submissive and voices were never raised at least not by her.
His self hatred and selfishness would be our salvation. The familiar phrase "if he hits you once he will hit you again" cannot be repeated enough. While the reasons women stay with these types of men vary, they are always fear based. If a woman does decide to stay and is lucky enough to survive the abuse, she will certainly have the scars to show for it. If she is not so lucky,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], there is a headstone somewhere with her name on it.
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